https://darhkportal.com/blogs/news.atom darhkportal - News 2021-01-22T18:00:00-05:00 darhkportal https://darhkportal.com/blogs/news/the-confidence-mantra 2021-01-22T18:00:00-05:00 2021-01-22T18:00:00-05:00 The Confidence Mantra Lexie Moore At darhkportal, we love to embrace all diversity, from our supporters and all beyond, to the ends of the universe. Our community is filled with incredible creatures of beauty far and wide, but sometimes we hear of a few extra terrestrials feeling hesitant to go out and strut their stuff. Fear not, sweet aliens, we have been there too and we want to help empower you as you are.

Confidence in these times of uncertainty, isolation, and overstimulated social media is a difficult thing to manage.  So with this in mind, the AO family wants to invite you to try this confidence mantra for whenever you are feeling down about yourself. 

“I am beautiful. 

I am brave. 

I am worthy, 

And I am strength.

There is no one like me and that is my power,

No matter the circumstance, 

No matter the tower

There is no other me to do me like I can,

So here I am world, 

Here I stand,

Only I have the opportunity to harness this truth

And the truth is that I am no less than proof

Of my intelligence

My worthiness

My kindness and my love,

As I smile and I strut

I will always be more than enough,

Even if enough seems like more than I can handle,

I will rise to the occasion,

And I will light up like a candle. 

I cannot be broken down

I am all that I will be ever be, 

And being Me is more than enough

To me.”


We love you beautiful extraterrestrials! Remember to keep being you :)

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https://darhkportal.com/blogs/news/conventional-beauty-standards-are-killing-your-vibe 2021-01-22T12:00:00-05:00 2021-01-22T12:00:00-05:00 Conventional Beauty Standards Are Killing Your Vibe Lexie Moore We see it all the time from the hot new fitness icon on magazine covers, up and coming TikTok creators getting clout for being sexy af, and not to mention those awful slim tea influencers clouding our instagram feeds. A constant attack on what we should and shouldn’t look like, is a dissertation beyond a single blog post. 


Comparison really is the thief of joy

It is likely that you have lied to, for the majority of your life when it comes to interpreting what standard of “external beauty, can be defined. The truth is, everything is simply beautiful. Every living thing and every living creature holds an external beauty within them, no matter how we perceive them. External beauty can fit the mold of what we are taught as “conventional beauty” or something entirely polarizing. Without this polarity or even minimally going against the grain of the conventional, there couldn’t be room for growth.  This being said, it is incredibly important to remember that no matter what your style is or how you decide to dress yourself up, there is no right or wrong way. All is acceptable. 


Dressing for your taste- not society’s 

Bringing attention to oneself can be intimidating, especially for the few of us shy creatures. However it goes without saying that how one decides to dress is truly none of anyone else’s business, and shouldn’t really matter in the first place.  When eying those leather belts or fishnet tights to go with your new black mini skirt on darhkportal, try not to worry too much on how you think others will react to your taste of fashion, and think first about what items of clothing will bring you the most joy in wearing. Remember this journey to self love is about embracing who you are, despite the haters waiting on standby to ruin others’ day.  Forget them and listen to your inner voice and do you boo boo

 

A letter from us to you:

Dear Baelien, 

You are more than enough. Your flesh is your power battery to life, but in no way a defining trait to who you really are in your soul. You are beautiful in every way, just as you are. I know that it is easy to worry and think negatively of yourself with all of the constant misinformation about beauty, that breeds comparison from our media; but I can promise you that comparison is just the draining of joy. Joy is what encompasses us as we experience life on our terms- a feeling of wholeness and pure happiness for the present. What we feel naturally cannot come from wanting something unnatural to our being, so be the you that you naturally are. You are not the universe's creature that is designed to be altered, but a creature of the universe to look at with admiration of the gift it has created... You. 

Sincerely, 

Your Baelien Family

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https://darhkportal.com/blogs/news/embracing-your-inner-alien 2021-01-01T17:00:01-05:00 2021-01-04T17:58:38-05:00 Embracing Your Inner Alien Lexie Moore Welcome home to a place where you can be yourself without the fear of judgement from people who don’t even know you. Hello fellow Aliens, this is your planet now, so feel free to embrace your weird


Today’s lesson: How to Handle People That Judge You 


First of all, anyone who feels so inclined to take the time and energy out of their day to talk shit about you, is just jealous of what you have.  No one with a life and a full schedule has that kind of free time to be an asshole.  Not to mention, just think about the kind of day that that person is having, where they are so charged with negativity that they need an outlet like you to let some of that steam out.  Feel bad for them, and get on with your badass self. 

Weird is cool! 

What makes you weird to one person, could hold the potential for the next best innovation of our lifetime. As a society, we love to look up to famous people like Bill Gates and Steve Jobs who created technology that changed how we live forever, but we often don't take into account the amount of negativity and adversity they had to overcome when they started. Average minds think in average ways and what constitutes as “weird,” is really just unique and embodies out-of-the-box thinking. 

Remember that the root of your uniqueness is the source of your power. Many people want to believe that their faults in life are what hinder them, when really it could be the secret to your greatest strength.  Maybe your way of thinking holds the key to seeing a problem in a new light that leads to its solution.  Or perhaps the creative way you presented a presentation, captured the eye of a major investor that could launch a new empire with your ideas. Don’t underestimate the power your weird can have on shifting the current reality of limited perspective. 

You are perfect in your weirdness, so keep on being you. 

Sincerely, 

Fellow Extraterrestrial

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https://darhkportal.com/blogs/news/slutrepreneur-podcast-and-facebook-group 2020-12-25T13:00:00-05:00 2020-12-25T13:00:00-05:00 Slutrepreneur Podcast and Facebook Group Lexie Moore Want to know more about sex work, slutreprenuership, or how to promote yourself as the bossy babe you are?  Hop on over to the podcast and facebook group for real time highlights and updates of what my businesses and people in the industry are doing. 

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To say 2020 was an interesting year, is a complete understatement. So many things, good and bad, have occurred this year but one thing that surprised me the most in this year of seclusion, would be the in power that social media has brought us all together.  From TikTok to Instagram, YouTube to Podcasts, this year alone more people have connected through social mediums than ever before; and have gone on to create online influencer presences if not businesses right from their couches!  Who knew it would only take a global pandemic to resent the ever turning wheels of the rat race,  to create a new adventure of online opportunities like never before. 

The Slutrepreneur Podcast was created to spread the secrets and success stories of Ana Dee, in her journey to building the ultimate empire of sex positive content and e-commerce. Insider details from creating an Onlyfans to speaking with a lawyer on the legalalites of safe online sex work, is only the tip of the iceberg this Slutrepreneur has in store. She has also created the Slutrepreneur Facebook group for real time updates and specials to her online stores; not to mention an entire community of sex positive Boss Babes who share meaningful advice on all things business. It’s a fantastic resource and community to network with for anyone interesting in getting involved in the industry. 

Tune in each week on Apple Podcast for new Slutrepreneur content, and head on over to join in the fun on facebook to see what new topics are available for engagement. 

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Written + Directed: Brandon Kennedy @kninemedia + Ana Dee @anadeemadeit
Video Edit: @kninemedia
Styling: @themooncult AlienOutfitters.com
Models: Graham Morrison @grahammorrison, Lura Lauer @lura_photography, and Lauren Seeger @laurseeg
Music: NuKid - “Dirty Talk” @nukidofficial

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